Is The Ship Worth Saving?

  

How about a relation-Ship?  When it has run aground and taking on water is it worth trying to patch the holes or should you just abandon ship?  Another broken relationship.  Another sunk ship.
 
Maybe your ship has “slow leaks?”  Little leaks that keep filling up and requiring “bailing out” once in a while.  Just like in a real boat, little leaks don’t get better by themselves.  They get worse and worse until the bailing doesn’t work anymore and it is time to “abandon ship.”
 
The problem is that it takes relationship skills training to salvage the goodness and understand the badness.  Without learning, without skills to understand the dynamics we are doomed to repeat the experience over and over.  Sadly, bonding in a relationship is a lot like the glue on adhesive tape.  Every time we use the tape over, the adhesive is weaker and weaker.  Eventually there isn’t any bond at all, relationships become short term and casual.
 
Restoration and reconciliation.  Forgiveness with integrity.  It takes two.  But even if both are willing what does it take?  How can you learn the skills to overcome the barriers to a leaking relationship?  Is there really a code, a password, a process?
 
Yes, we have broken the code.  You can learn how to put the glue back into your relationship, together.
 
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